Balanced Existence

It is a very useful skill to be able to clearly reappraise one’s present situation in life and the current sense of direction and purpose. I’ve always been struck by the sense that my life could be very limited if I failed to be creative enough to think of new possibilities. New courses of action. The problem is that if one is not creative to begin with one may fail to understand that the capacity for creative options, solutions and plans of action or life direction exists. Such in-the-moment reflective skill is not necessarily something that can be called upon in times of high stress and confusion if it has not been previously developed.

Elegantly a positive outcome is the only possible outcome of this type of “manipulation” of others. No one is purposely going to be an asshole so that they can suffer to live amongst assholes. Using this principle no one is going to self-inflict horrible soul sucking people on themselves by being such a horrendous soul sucking person.